If you have family like mine, I’m talking about brothers and sisters here, sometimes they just make one want to scream. The stuff they come up with or the things they get into and then wonder why life becomes so hard. It would be funny, if it wasn’t so tragic. … Read More
Kids Talking Back?
I read an interesting article the other day and the question was posed: “Should Kids be encouraged to talk back to their parents?” I thought to myself “no!” but then as I thought more about this simple question, I needed to think through my answer and give a more appropriate … Read More
Listening with the heart
Maybe you have seen the commercial where a couple is out for a romantic dinner yet all the while the male is checking a game while conversation is taking place with his partner. Sadly, the commercial makes light of something all too common in relationships – instead of being intentional … Read More
Keeping it honest – to tell or not to tell?
Have you ever felt the need to keep something from a partner to prevent them from feeling hurt or disappointed? There are times in many relationships when the idea arises that not hurting the other’s feelings is more important than being honest. However, as is often seen with couples, this … Read More
Communicating with your teens
Three more tips to help open the lines of communication with teenagers. Request your teenager’s opinion. I know this sounds dangerous, but often parents can be stubborn or controlling and issue an ultimatum or make a demand rather than actually listening to their teenager. Often it is easier to focus … Read More
Make the Tantrums Stop!!
If you have ever wished for a child’s tantrum to stop then this information could be helpful for you. New research is showing that children’s tantrums have a pattern to them, meaning most children’s tantrums start and end in similar ways. Why is this important for you to know in … Read More
What Does “I love you” Mean to You?
Does it mean “I passionately love you and can’t live without you” Does it mean “I accept you for whom you are and can live with that.” Does it mean that “up to now you haven’t disappointed me, so keep up the good work?” We so often have different meanings … Read More
Communication Tips for Parents of Teenagers
As parents, there are some ways to help facilitate good communication with your teenagers. I am suggesting three. When you have something in particular that you want to talk about, limit the time and stick to the subject. We’ve all been involved in conversations where the other person monopolizes the … Read More
Sexual intimacy is a two party affair
The Bond of Sexual Intimacy: How do partners openly share this bond that means so much to a relationship? Communicating from the beginning, as to what is and what is not acceptable to each is a good start. When one is able to share their feelings about this very important … Read More